Monday, September 27, 2010
儅忙碌遇上悲傷
不知不覺上了10個星期的課了，時間真的是不留人。在大學的日子感覺到越來越少了，讀電腦係的朋友也只剩下一年半左右而已，真是太快了，好像覺得很多東西都沒有做到一樣，時間不夠用。可能就是太想做很多東西而卻常常都在忙這個那個所以就覺得時間過得很快。習慣了忙碌的生活，也漸漸忘了生活的意義。朋友的其中一項功課是要他們尋找人生所會面對的50個問題或挑戰，我想都不想就講了好幾個，他們想了半天才想到幾題而已。這證明了他們生命中很少遇到困難，而卻就算遇到也很容易的解決了，所以不算是什麽困難。但是往往社會裏還是有一部分的人解決不了他們所面對的問題。他們最終還是有解決但是用了最後的選擇而卻是最痛苦的選擇 - 絕路。人生無常，沒有辦法之下的辦法。“忙”是爲了逃避悲傷，“悲傷”是爲了尋找快樂。人就是醬，因爲一些不愉快的事兒讓自己忙碌起來，希望借這忙碌可以忘掉所有一卻。我曾經也是這樣的人，現在可能就不懂。因習慣成自然，所以往往都分不清楚以前和現在的自己，只知道自己已經變了。人嘛！知道改變但不懂改變在哪裏，所以有時就一不小心的走了邪路，這樣一走就在也沒有回頭了。古人說：“拿得起放得下”，但不是每個人能做到。這是人生顆黨所會學習到的一黨課，有些人吃到大半輩子了還搞不懂這件事，所以活到老學到老。
Monday, September 13, 2010
話望生
Finally reach home this morning after a long journey...
Gua Musang, Kelantan -> Cameron Highlands -> PLUS Highway(stuck for 2 hours) -> Penang -> SP
Just imagine peak traffic on a 110km/j highway...I though traffic only will be affected from North to South but mana tau some where from Ipoh tol to Sg. Perak R&R, the traffic was so terrible, time aspected to reach Penang around 8pm but due to peak traffic we only reach Estin Hotel around 9.30pm...not good! Anyway, im now happily and safely reach my beloved hometown, haha^^
Gua Musang, Kelantan...a small town something close to Baling, nothing but only one main road where everything is located left and right of the road. From f&b to cloths to personal stuff, anything u name it. Although it is just a small town but the people there are well in wealth, mostly are 4 wheel drive = Pembalakkan Bosses = big boss...hmm...small ulu place but not so ulu in their money. The town area starts from a traffic light till the end(KTM railway station).
18 & Under
I quite disappointed with my performance there, although it is my first national competition but the technical and rules are not new to me, feel regret why I din take my time to study on the rules since I have plan to do so. It was a good start but a bad ending for me. I start well, got some compliment from my Kedah technical and the assessor. Game after game my face start to show one kind of it where people say lack of confident and blurly face till Sabah coach scold me:"dun blur!"...sad case! Conclusion for this competition and my problem is that Im not known to the rules well so sometime I will doubt about my call. It is really a good experience for me since this is my first time. Learn a lot from those seniors and listen to their experience and steps or "short-cuts" in officiating a game. Hopefully after this I will be more caution and understand more on those rules and steps and dun let everyone down when they see me again in next meet up.
Confident + Rules Understanding + Feel the Game = Good Officiating = Good Game = coach diam diam = a chance to get promoted ^^
Gua Musang, Kelantan -> Cameron Highlands -> PLUS Highway(stuck for 2 hours) -> Penang -> SP
Just imagine peak traffic on a 110km/j highway...I though traffic only will be affected from North to South but mana tau some where from Ipoh tol to Sg. Perak R&R, the traffic was so terrible, time aspected to reach Penang around 8pm but due to peak traffic we only reach Estin Hotel around 9.30pm...not good! Anyway, im now happily and safely reach my beloved hometown, haha^^
Gua Musang, Kelantan...a small town something close to Baling, nothing but only one main road where everything is located left and right of the road. From f&b to cloths to personal stuff, anything u name it. Although it is just a small town but the people there are well in wealth, mostly are 4 wheel drive = Pembalakkan Bosses = big boss...hmm...small ulu place but not so ulu in their money. The town area starts from a traffic light till the end(KTM railway station).
18 & Under
I quite disappointed with my performance there, although it is my first national competition but the technical and rules are not new to me, feel regret why I din take my time to study on the rules since I have plan to do so. It was a good start but a bad ending for me. I start well, got some compliment from my Kedah technical and the assessor. Game after game my face start to show one kind of it where people say lack of confident and blurly face till Sabah coach scold me:"dun blur!"...sad case! Conclusion for this competition and my problem is that Im not known to the rules well so sometime I will doubt about my call. It is really a good experience for me since this is my first time. Learn a lot from those seniors and listen to their experience and steps or "short-cuts" in officiating a game. Hopefully after this I will be more caution and understand more on those rules and steps and dun let everyone down when they see me again in next meet up.
Confident + Rules Understanding + Feel the Game = Good Officiating = Good Game = coach diam diam = a chance to get promoted ^^
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
心想講話
原來要找個人來聊聊心事是多麽的難，除了要擺脫心理的防備心之外，還要看看對方肯不肯聼你講，最重要的是他們的嘴巴能不能鎖緊。昨晚談了差不多一個鈡終算要講的都講了出來，心理舒服多了。就像師伯講一樣，談心事的朋友不必多，一兩個就夠了。人嘛！難免都會有壓力同時也會尋找各種的方法來解脫它。找個人來聊聊，把所有不開心的東西講出來讓自己舒服點，醬生活也過得開心點。不是每個人都會細心儅個“耳朵”，本人比較會喜歡找個處女座的人來談，因爲以他們的思維和冷靜度，能對一件事分析得很清楚。要求完美的他們可以從不同的角度看不出不同的東西，所以找他們談心是再好不過了。
“不要管別人怎麽看你，做好自己的事就好了”
“用心，多堅持一分鐘就能有多一分鐘的機會”
“爱情可遇不可求，遇到了就要好好珍惜”
和她談了將近一個鈡終算有些結論，感恩^^
“不要管別人怎麽看你，做好自己的事就好了”
“用心，多堅持一分鐘就能有多一分鐘的機會”
“爱情可遇不可求，遇到了就要好好珍惜”
和她談了將近一個鈡終算有些結論，感恩^^
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